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Tuesday, January 12, 2010
5 Guilty Pleasures
I've been tagged; thanks, Kirsty, this was fun.
Check it out on http://www.theweaversnest.typepad.com/
The challenge is to confess 5 guilty pleasures.
They say confession is good for the soul. So let's see.
*grin*
Here we go:
1. Afternoon sleeps
Ah -
Is there anything to compare with drifting off on the couch after lunch?
Do NOT think I don't know how elderly that sounds but I have always loved it - I think even as a teen I loved it.
Sleep - one of life's great pleasures.
But in the afternoon, when there is "stuff" to be done?
Definitely brings on guilty feelings.
2. Taking a whole day off to paint
Absolutely NO reason for guilt about this but it arises anyway. Seems so self absorbed.
3. Watching TV during the day.
I'm a sucker for stories. Always have been.
When I was growing up, my nose was constantly in a book.
Curled up on my bed, on a chair, sprawled full length on the carpet - always lost in stories.
Now if I let TV step into that space -
Feels good but GUILT rides close behind!
4. The time spent on my computer
Sometimes, like a guilty little child, when I hear DH approaching, I will quickly leave my study and dash into the kitchen, hoping it would seem I had been busy there for a-a-a-ges.
And he wouldn't even mind that I was blogging!
How sad is that!
And like now - stax of stuff to do in the house
(When are the househelps coming back?! Sob!)
and I "just popped in to check my mail" -
That was about 2 hours ago.
I rest my case: guilty feelings as I sit here - but oh, what a pleasure at the same time.
5. Those ghastly celeb gossip mags.
Specially if there is anything on the cover to suggest that Ang and Brad are going to split up.
I look around furtively first to make sure no one sees the trash I'm buying but I will read everything in there in record time.
Even though I know they make up half (or more) of that rubbish.
Actually, I realise that there is no reason why I should feel guilty about doing these things (with the possible exception of the mags!)
But I think so many years of parenthood may have resulted in an underlying feeling I should always be busy; always be doing something productive; or doing something for someone else. And that may have made it hard not to feel guilty about self centred pleasures.
So maybe I should borrow M's word fpr this year: just enbrace the pleasure and ditch the guilt.
Hmm?
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3 comments:
We all have a lot in common, don't you think.
I am exactly the same as you where my guilt concerning computer time is concerned.
Picturing you donning a big hat and sunglasses to go and buy the Heat and Huisgenoot
laughing at M's comment!
so we now know what you're up to if u go quiet on us after lunch!
loved reading this!
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