This I am going to write about -
The two sibs (and their families) of my man live up Gauteng way (about 2 hours flight time)
We don't see them very often but as far as I know, there have been no family fall outs or anything like that.
It turns out that they have all been in our neighbourhood for a good few days, socialising with DH's parents, even braai-ing just down our street.
And not one of them so much as called him!
I am gobsmacked.
And gutted for him
He just takes it in his stride (or says he does)
I specially cannot understand how his parents could have let this happen.
Or what caused his sibs to be so cruel.
I want to phone the parentals
And ask them to explain.
As nicely as I can
When I want to scream down the phone:
"What were you THINKING?!"
Would you phone them?
Or is it best left alone for the family to sort out?
What would you do?